Monday, January 13, 2020

HOPE


"Lord, never forget the promises You've made to me, for they are my 
hope and confidence." Psalms 119:49 [The Passion Translation]

hope
/hōp/
noun
  1. - a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen


Many times we define the word HOPE as "a wish."  It's strength is the strength of the person's desire.  No real substance behind it.

But HOPE is more than a wish.

The Bible's definition of HOPE is, "An ernest and confident expectation of what God has promised and its strength is in His faithfulness.

Although, according to 1 Corinthians 13:13, Love is the greatest, HOPE made what I call the BIG 3.  "Three things will last forever - faith, hope and love - and the greatest of these is love."

So where is your HOPE today?

Do you have HOPE as the Bible describes it?

Do you just wish or do you have a confident expectation of what God has promised?

Dig in and find out what the God of HOPE has for you today.


Friday, January 10, 2020

WHAT WILL YOU CHOOSE




"Life is a matter of choices, and every choice
you make, makes you."  John C. Maxwell



CHOICES.

We are faced with them everyday.

What to wear?  

What to eat?  

Where to go?  

What to spend? 

What to believe?

Life is a matter of choices....and EVERY choice you make, makes you!  We need to do our best to make the right ones....and ALWAYS do our best to learn from the wrong ones!

I heard a quote that said, "Sometimes I Win....Sometimes I Learn!"  Every choice we make, when we "OWN" it, will put us in one of those two categories....and it's what we do in it that counts.

CHOICES.

In the Bible, Deuteronomy 30:19 [NLT] says:
"Today I have given you the choice between life and death, between blessings and curses. Now I call on heaven and earth to witness the choice you make. Oh, that you would choose life....."

Notice that, "....the CHOICE YOU MAKE."  

What will you CHOOSE? 

YOU decide.  

Your choice COULD mean your destiny. 





Wednesday, January 8, 2020

MAKE YOUR BED

"If you want to change the world - 
start off by making your bed."
William McRaven, US Navy Admiral (Ret.)
Each day I wake up around 5am.

Most days I get right to a work out.  Some days I have early morning meetings that prevent my work out until later in the day.  Even when that happens, I'm still up at 5am.

Today, as I got up, I was drinking a copy of coffee and got on to a closed Facebook group I am a part of.  It is health, fitness, wellness, inspirational related.  As I was looking at this morning's post, there was a link to an inspirational video by an influencer named Lewis Howes (click HERE to watch).

In it, he talks about intention and routine. Right at the front, he says the first thing he does....MAKES HIS BED!

This started me thinking about the WHY behind making your bed and if I could draw some significance to it...some leadership lesson.  

What is it about making your bed that leads to influence and success?

So, I GOOGLED, "why do you make your bed" and came up with some questions and answers on the health benefits, the mental benefits, and a few other things about making your bed.

BUT....then I saw a link to a video by US Navy Admiral (Ret.) William McRaven.  It was a video of the commencement speech he gave to the graduating class of 2014 from the University of Texas.

The slogan for UT says, "What starts here changes the world."

In his speech, he tells of 10 lessons he learned when he was going through Navy Seal Training.  10 lessons in life, that one can do, IF they want to change the world.

Right out of the gate, his number 1 lesson was: MAKE YOUR BED.

He said that making your bed is a simple task, mundane at best.  

But.....


"If you make your bed every morning you will have accomplished the first task of the day.  It will give you a small sense of pride, and it will encourage you to do another task and another and another.  By the end of the day, that one task completed will have turned into many tasks completed.  Making your bed will also reinforce the fact that little things in life matter.  If you can't do the little things right, you will never do the big things right.

And, if by chance you have a miserable day, you will come home to a bed that is made - that you made - and a made bed gives you encouragement that tomorrow will be better.

If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed."

I won't go into the other 9 lessons, but if you want to watch the full speech (and it is worth the watch), click HERE.

Don't bypass what looks like simple, mundane tasks in your day, because even the successful have found out that the reason they are successful is because they have developed the habits of doing things the unsuccessful are unwilling to do.

So, if you want to change the world, to start, MAKE YOUR BED!

NOTE: 
I don't usually make our bed, because most mornings when I get up, the CHEERLEADER is still in bed.  But after she wakes up, I have noticed one of the first things she does is MAKE THE BED!  She is a WORLD CHANGER!

To watch a quick 6 minute excerpt of the commencement speech that gives all 10 lessons, click HERE



Monday, January 6, 2020

CHANGE



"Be the CHANGE you want to see in the world."  Gandhi

WHO are you today?
WHO do you want to be tomorrow?
WHO are you wanting to impact?

WHAT do you want?
WHAT would you like your life to be like?
WHAT will it take to make it happen?

WHERE do you want to go?
WHERE is the "where" in your life?

WHEN do you want to do this?
WHEN is the "START" in this journey?

WHY do you want this?
WHY is this important to you?
WHY?

HOW will you make this happen?
HOW will this impact YOUR life?
HOW many times will you talk yourself out of doing something?

This BEST YEAR YET is written by YOU!

Saturday, January 4, 2020

NOT IN A DAY




Welcome to Day 4 of 2020.

How are those "resolutions" coming along?

For some, they are still full steam ahead.  For others, they feel they have already blown it.

For those of the latter, you didn't get where you are in a day, so what makes you think you can reverse it in a day?

HABITS (good or bad) are developed DAILY.....NOT in a day! (for our discussion, we'll stick with good habits)

Your life today is essentially the sum of your HABITS.

Do you like how things are going today?

THEY say (whoever "they" are) that it takes at least 21 days to develop a habit. I'm no scientist or expert on HABITS, but I think it even takes more.

What I have learned about HABITS, in my own life is a 4 step process:

  • DECIDE
    • The first thing is that you have to make a decision of the change you want to make.  I have written about a time in my life, almost 11 years ago, where I made a decision that I wasn't going to die in my 50's by something I could control.  I made a decision to lose weight and get healthy.  Recently, I have had to remind myself of that promise and make some "course corrections."
  • DISCIPLINE
    • Giving up, whenever, is NOT the answer.  DISCIPLINE says "I'm all in!"
    • If it hurts - GOOD
    • If you're tired - GOOD
    • If it's cold outside - GOOD
    • If it's too hot - GOOD
    • You can have results or excuses, just not both.  And DISCIPLINE counters the excuses
  • HABIT
    • You do the activity...the plan...long enough, it becomes a HABIT for you.  
    • If you miss a day does that mean you have to go all the way back to START?  No, it just means you missed a day.  DON'T make that a HABIT!
  • LIFESTYLE
    • Doing your HABITS long enough will become your LIFESTYLE.  Choose what type of LIFESTYLE you want!
So, just because here on DAY 4, you ate a donut instead of a healthy choice for breakfast, don't throw in the towel on what you want to accomplish.

MAKE A DECISION
BE DISCIPLINED TO YOUR PLAN
BE CONSISTENT, EVERYDAY
ENJOY THE RESULTS FOR LIFE

2020 will be your BEST YEAR YET....if YOU want it to.  YOUR choice.


Thursday, January 2, 2020

HOW WILL YOU BE REMEMBERED


I once work with this guy who's greatest fear was doing something stupid that would get captured on video and go viral on YouTube.

My recommendation:  DON'T DO ANYTHING STUPID!

Easier said than done, right?

As we begin this new year.....this new decade, I thought about what WORD would I want to help define this year, this new beginning for me.

We look at the beginning of a new year...really the beginning of anything new and we see all the promise....all of the possibility that is in front of us.

We might not be able to change the past, but we can sure change the future, if we choose to.

Your past was an education, NOT a destination.

When coming up with my WORD, this quote by Dr. Seuss came to mind.

I have a choice, everyday on how I will act....how I will react....how I will be a friend...how I will encourage or (hopefully not) discourage.

My WORD for 2020?  IMPACT

I want that WORD to help guide my thoughts, actions, words, really everything that I set out to do.

But you know what?  It will be up to me to live this out and have an IMPACT a positive IMPACT on all of those in my life or even those I don't know but we cross paths.

"Today I shall behave as if this is the day I will be remembered."

How will you be remembered?




Wednesday, January 1, 2020

STILL STANDING


Welcome to 2020!

I got up this morning and after grabbing a cup of coffee, I opened up Facebook and right at the top was the "ON THIS DAY" post.

The beginning of each year, we have a 365 page book (this year, we have a bonus day or 366 days) with blank pages to write our story for this year.

When January 1, 2016 happened, we had NO idea what we were in for beginning that day in 2016.  

To say the last 4 years have been challenging, would be an understatement.  

I had just come off of my first BEST YEAR YET.  I ran the 2015 New York City Marathon just 2 months earlier.  I turned 50 shortly after the marathon.  And now, on January 1, 2016, I decided I would run 4 full marathons and I was ready to take it on!

I did run those 4 marathons in 2016, but I was also diagnosed with Prostate Cancer and had surgery to remove the cancer (which was successful).

Over the next couple of years, we experienced much Joy and equal amounts or more of pain.  

Relationships started.  Relationships ended.

New jobs.  Loss of jobs.

New family members born.  Some family members passed away.

Through it all, the CHEERLEADER’S words, "We are just going to be us." held true.

My armor took many shots....took on many arrows from the enemy.  

But...here we are, January 1, 2020 and STILL STANDING.

Still making a difference.

Still making an impact on others.

Here's to this new year.  Here's to making a decision to have your BEST YEAR YET.

Here's to STILL STANDING!